A
female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes: Hi I'm really unsure whether this guy in my class likes me or not. We went on one date last year but ended up being friends instead. So just before summer we had an argument an I ended up saying lots of offensive things to him (they were a little harsh and I apologised endlessly but he didn't want to talk) and didn't speak at all over the summer. So first day back we got sat next to each and I wasn't sure about acknowledging him at all but he turned round and started talking to me as if nothing happened. I thought something must be up but left it at that until today got me thinking. I walked into assembly and he tapped me on the shoulder saying I looked cold asked if anyone had offered me a coat an he said he would've. I thought he was just being polite but then later on the air con was on and our teacher wouldn't turn it of and he offered his jacket a few times but I refuse cus I knew he was cold. Anyway in the end he put it on the back o my chair an said it was there if I needed it. Eventually I gave in and he said it looked nice on me. Anyway I'm confused cus he's a friend and I don't wanna mess things up. I mean he isn't someone who forgives and forgets so I presumed he wouldn't talk to me ever again and also he doesn't really like my friends but has made a few comments on he wants to get to get on with them. Reply to this Question Share |
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female
reader, clueless and confused +, writes (13 September 2012):
3 words GO FOR IT!!!
A
female
reader, aunt honesty +, writes (12 September 2012):
You need to decide what it is that you want with him, is it strictly friendship or do you like him more than that as well. If it is a case that you do then go with the flow and see how things are, if it is strictly friendship you want with him then talk to him and make it clear to him that is all that you want. Drop hints you are glad you both can be friends again and that you don't want anything to come in the way of that again.
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