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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:dear cupid ok ive been with my boyfriend for 5 monthes and im completly in love with him he treats me right! he knows when im happy and sad and he doesnt even have to look at me we can be talking on the phone he knows exactly how to make me happy and i cant stay ,mad at him for longer than half an hour.. ok well i found this thing on my phone and started talking to this guy two states away we decided to go out behind are partners back and we would tallk sexually to each other and were planning on seeing eachother well my boyfriend had randomly went through my phone and caught me the thing is i dont know why i did it i really dont and knowing how much ive hurt him i dont know ireally dont but maybe it has to do with my past like one ive not ever been told i was pretty by my mom i always got your a slut, youll never find someone to love you, your ugly or i hate you and not even by my mom by everybody all my family and peopls from school. i never known my dad or had any father figure ive always been hurt by every guy in my life from boyfriends to my older brother to my uncle and grandpa. i have been raped and almost raped two different times the time i was almost raped he tried paying me 10 dolars like if i was a slut i dont know im soo confused and hurt and even more hurt knowing i hurt my boyfrien. can somebody help me please!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2011): Yeah, your story has been told over, and over, and over."the thing is i dont know why i did it i really dont and knowing how much ive hurt him i dont know ireally dont but maybe it has to do with my past like one ive not ever been told i was pretty by my mom i always got your a slut, youll never find someone to love you, your ugly or i hate you and not even by my mom by everybody all my family and peopls from school. i never known my dad or had any father figure ive always been hurt by every guy in my life from boyfriends to my older brother to my uncle and grandpa. i have been raped and almost raped two different times the time i was almost raped he tried paying me 10 dolars like if i was a slut i dont know im soo confused and hurt and even more hurt knowing i hurt my boyfrien. can somebody help me please!! "This causes poor self esteem, you treat others like they treated you, and the cycle repeats.Get counseling help, or you will do to your spouses what was done to you, you will do to your children what was done to you, and you will do to yourself what you would think you would never do.
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