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writes: You know when guys find that girl they know is gonna be the (mrs/mother of his kids)well thats what i thought i found.I love my boyfriend dearly, But since we bought a house 2years ago...things just aint the same anymore.not in any department Theres no affection he hardley spends time with me,even when i request it.we argue about everything...for no reason,and the worst thing is no matter how i try change a situation for the better...it always comes back in a bad way! Im not sure i beleive in Karma...cuz its working in the opposite way for me.My Career is non-excistant my boyfriend whom tells me he loves me (when i ask).......but doesnt know how to show it anymore. We were so beautiful before( towards each other i mean, there was nothing i wouldnt do for him and vica versa. we were so connected..i couldnt belive I was accually allowed to be happy with someone that was just like me. it was almost like we were the same person. But the last 2yrs,,,my haert has slowly been dying. it hurts so bad. what happend did he just wake up and decied he wasnt happy anymore...what. im exhausted trying to be the perfect house wife( without the ring i might add) What can i do. I cant lose him. I need a mans perspective. Plese be gentle Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2006): i have just been throught this exact situation myself and it breaks my heart to say he ended things and noe im devastated. if i were back where you are now i would start doing all the fun stuff you used to do when you first starting seeing each other. go out have a laugh flirt with him like crazy and bring some of the old attraction back. have a date night just for pure fun and avoid all serious issues on the date.really wish you all the best, wish i had heard this before my guy left.good luck and be happy xxxxxxx
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reader, Smiler +, writes (24 June 2006):
 Hey Sweetie
You poor thing you :o), whats this he says he loves me only when i ask him? he should tell you all the time unprompted.. thats how things used to work, and again i don't like this he won't spend time with me unless i ask... basically from what i have read this guy is seriously taking the mick, he was perfect untill you moved in together thats not on thats like seeing something you want in a shop then when you get inside you see the price is too much and out of your range so you just put up with it! Lady you know that thing called a backbone seriously you have to use it here you would'nt stand that in the shop so don't stand for it off your man or in your home, he is clearly taking advantage of you being the 'perfect houswife' i mean how sexist is that you said about your career bein non exsistant.. but give no details why is it that way? i think your only crime here is that your self esteem has taken a little kick and you need to get right back up and stand your ground tell him in no uncertain terms you won't put up with this crap anymore you have a right to be loved and treated with respect not just left to do the housework... sorry to be harsh sweetie but seriosly you have to tell him straight!
I hope my advice was of some help to you sweetie :o) good luck ok... If you ever need someone to talk to or just a shoulder to cry on or maybe a little more advice, truely i'm always here for you ok :o)
You Take Care Babe And Good Luck X
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