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writes:Ok, my very close friend (who is a lad) has just found out that his grandad is dying.He has been crying most of the day because of how close he is to him.I really dont know what to say. I really care about him and want him to be happy, be ive never experienced a loss so i dont know what to say.I really need help. I feel like he's counting on my support and i dont want to say the wrong thing.I dont see him till tomorrow so i cant give him a hug or hold his hand or anythingHelp me pleaseXxX Reply to this Question
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (8 November 2007):
 Just hug him and tell him you are there for him and you will do your best to support him, nobody we love ever leaves us they live on with us through our memories and in our hearts let him no anytime he needs you your there day and night.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2007): At this time spirituality is always welcomed (unless the person is a declared atheist) If you go to church or have a friend who is a christian or maybe you are believer but your don't go to church this is a good time for you also to get some pastoral counseling and get him involved in it. The greatest thing to do would be what my ex bf did for me when my beloved granny was very ill and suffering so much last year. He got his pastor to come over to her house and he talked to her about The Bible and comforted her so much. My grandfather told me she kept talking about that experience after we left the house and how fulfilling it was for her. It kept me very relieved when two months after that she suddenly passed away. The most important thing is that his grandfather accepts Jesus as his personal Savour before he dies and that's the only way your friend iis going to be able to see him again in heaven. Don't let this opportunity pass by. Your friend and grandfather will be very grateful when they realize how much you've helped them.
God Bless You.
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