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writes: dear cupid,this is silly but me and my boyfriend are far away and so he calls me sometimes but neither of us know what to say to each other. i never have anyhting to say baisically os there any way you can help? i dont know why i feel so nervous but i never know what to say. please help! thankiesnadine Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2010): I'm calling him now what can I say to him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2010): Just say what you have been doing latley.Ask him what hes been up to.Most of all say you love him and cant wait to see him 3
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reader, painoflove  +, writes (23 February 2009):
we dont ever think that the small problems are really the most the part they are fussy i do have the same problem my bf he is far from me alot but me when iam in the msn not in the phone well when u talk to him try to be calm ask him about his day did he have fun and how is his work if he is working or school try to be his friend more the his girl friend make him feel comforttable and try to tell him that u miss him and love him u know how to talk romantic then try to ask him about his dream where u want to go how life u see it it him there sport economie anything u want and be creative good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2008): this might sound stupid but who cares.ok i am a freshman in high school and i like this boy but my mom and are really religous so that means i cant have a boyfreind or have sex until am married but i did it any way i had sex and was going out with somebody well two boys . one name is ricky the other name is ted ok at first we were all just freinds but me and ted liked each other sence the beinging then we had a class to togather all three of us then thats when it happen i had sex with ricky over my house then the next day ted found out and was upset and diddnt belive what had hppen so then ted ask can he kiss me like after telling me that he really liked me ithought it was nice of hime to ask to kiss me but any way the funny thing is he has a girl freind but really dosent like her so said was why dont he break up with her but he cant b/c th egirl mom wont lat him break up with her and she got a baby but it's not ted thank god! any way i fellas though his some what playing around with me b/c i would see ted and her and the hall way kissing and i cant do any thing b/c she dont even no about me but i really like hime and i care so much about him.what should i do next year if he do ask me out should i say yes or no? but the crazy thing is i dont want to have a relationship but having to sneak around then we and up breaking up. ok enough of ted now ricky his nice he buys me stuff like a northface jacket come on know and he even said he would have gone out with me first before having sex. i dont know who to choose i like both of them?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2008): Just relax talk about your day how things are doing. But never ask him if he meant anyone else because he will get the feeling that you are cheating. Talk about things you saw on the internet school friends,, ipod music hw, pets even meeting up one day just dont be scared///
BEST OF LUCK TO YOU AND ANYONE ELSE WHO SEES THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2008): heheh i agree with her... you can write letters!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2007):
dear nadine,
well basically you need 2 really get to know him more that is if you already do!really if he dont talk to you that means hes really shy or nervous which what you probably are!but you need to be happy just to see him which you are!!!!!ask him how hes doin how his day went. thank about the future and ask about maybe when you 2 can meet up! you sound like a fun girl so show that side of you when you talk.ask about what hes been up to!ask out going questions be spontanious!talk back and forth between talkin about ur self and ask about him!really theres no need to be shy about talking to someone u really really like because obveously he likes you or he wouldnt call take it from someone who knows!well that pretty much it like i said no need to be shy!talk to him and make him talk!well i g2g dont 4 get about everything i said!!!!!!
sincerelly,
carrie
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reader, Amethyst  +, writes (9 August 2006):
 I've actually went through this with my fiance. Right now he's in a totally different state, and it drives me nuts. I was INCREDIBLY shy, and neveeeer liked talking on the phone. So, if I can get over the hurdle, anyone can. So here's a brief guide on how to jump the hurdle.1. Start off with small talk: How was your day? Anything interesting happen? How's school/work going? 2. Get a little more personal: I missed you last night. I wish I could see you. I can't wait until I can visit you. (These are just examples, by the way.)3. Talk about interests: "I like the game Final Fantasy X. It's awesome." "I'm wondering if maybe I should get a cat. I've always wanted one, they're adorable." "I've found that I like to sing when no one's around... not good might I add."After a few of those, when things are more serious: (But be careful with timing, don't bring these topics up too soon...)4. Compliment them/Show admiration: I love you. You are a wonderful person, I can't believe I snagged you away first. I'm so happy to be with you.5. Talk about the future: I want to work as an accountant. I want twins, or either just one kid. Where do you think our honeymoon should be?And yes, writing letters and exchanging emails is good too. Don't let the relationship survive off them alone though. But if the topic is too serious and you know you'll freeze on the phone, type it up! Trust me, it's a lot easier for some reason.And don't let others influence your beliefs on your relationship. If you feel like he's good for you and you are happy with him, don't let people bring you down by saying "long distance never works." If you're meant to be, distance doesn't matter.
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reader, camille  +, writes (8 August 2006):
 Why not write letters instead?
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