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*enmac
writes:My boyfriend of a year and half has a commitment problem. I asked him what his plans were and now he has said he wants a break.I dont know what to do as I love him alot but I dont know what he wants.He said he wants a break as he feels pressured but today at work he has been all over me. I dont know what to do!
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reader, jenmac +, writes (19 April 2008):
jenmac is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks guys for the advice. we are taking this weekend apart and see what happens.i think your all right though
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reader, jenmac +, writes (19 April 2008):
jenmac is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys for the advice. we are taking this weekend apart and see what happens.i think your all right though
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2008): If your boyfriend feels pressured at a year and a half, then he isn't ready to be serious, cut back your relationship to square one, stop having sex with him, be his friend and limit your contact with him..
If he doesn't come back with a proposal, tell him you understand, but you want a man that can commit and you need to move on....don't waste your life waiting on a commitment phobe....you can feel it in your gut that he isn't anywhere near being ready for marriage, or you wouldn't be asking this question.
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reader, daniellexxxx +, writes (18 April 2008):
 Yu have to leave him to have a break if you dont that could spell over. He wants a break and the best thing to do is let him have one a break can mean loads of things i gather he wants some time on his own to think things through. Am sure he will be in touch as soon as he has thought what he has to think through dont worry to much he hasnt finished you so dont worry.
Good luck.
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reader, love girl  +, writes (18 April 2008):
 if he doesnt want a serious relationship , it means he's just fooling aroud , if he says he's pressured , you've been waiting 1 and a half year , do you want to spend your hole life waiting , you never know when he's ready , he might be ready in 10 years , and in those years you could be raising your kids , you dont want to spend your whole life waiting , dont you ?
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