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*nitedprincess
writes:Dear cupid, I'm 20 yrs old with my boyfriend living with me at my parent's house for almost a year already. We have been together for two years. I'm confused from my boyfriend(20 yrs old) of him being confused on what he wants in our relationship. I know what i want and thats to turn this relationship into a serious relationship, but he doesn't know if he wants to be serious or not. Sometimes he'll explain to me about our future wedding for example he has said to me before like: "when we get married i want tejano, rock, and country music being played at our wedding" He even sees us either getting an apartment together or house on our own. And most of the time(this also happens during sex too) he'll ask me if I want to conceive a child with him right now(at that moment). I tell him i do want a child with you just not now we're not financially stable yet. He had just started a new job and plans on moving out by himself in an apartment within the next 3-4 months or so. That right there confuses me because he had always talked to me about moving in somewhere with me.And just recently he had told me he had talked to one of his guy friends about our relationship and that we been together for two yrs and how he plans on moving out by himself and his friend asks him "Do you ever feel like taking a break from the relationship?" And he tells him "ya sometimes but what's stopping me is my mom because she says she's the daughter she's never had" I feel like he is kind of blaming it on his mother because he cant ask to take a break from the relationship. This makes me feel really confused like does he wanna break up with me and take a break after he moves out? Is that what he is trying to say? I asked myself why would he even tell me this?
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reader, babetaz20 +, writes (25 March 2011):
 first i think that you need to talk things over and see where you stand at your presence. if you feel that your in a bit doubt,question those moment once again to ensure yourself even better. Just remember that always listen to your heart and follow it strong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2011): the best thing you can do is talk to him. u cant know what he is thinking until he tells you. but if his actions contradict what he tells you, take matters into your own hands and decide what vest for YOU.
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