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I don't know if she felt my erection

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Question - (29 May 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 29 May 2011)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok so me and my gf we kinda cuddling one day on the couch. I kissed her and after, her hand brushed up against my erection. She didn't seem to notice or nothing. And after she said she was completely comfortable and didnt mention it. Do you think she noticed? Did she think it was my leg our something cause my feet were propped up on the table? What is she thinking?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2011):

My guess is that she either didn't notice, did notice but wasn't sure what she felt, or else did notice and did not mind. All of those are good. The only bad outcome would have been noticing and acting weird or uncomfortable about it and that didn't happen.

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (29 May 2011):

chigirl agony auntI don't know about other girls, but I barely notice if a guy has a hard on when Im rubbing up against him. Especially if she's not experienced with it, and knows what it feels like, she probably didn't put much thought to it.

And, if she's like me, she'd just be flattered if she felt it. I've seen girls on dearcupid complaining about not feeling their guy's erection through the pants! They get offended, thinking they aren't capable of turning him on. I think girls like to feel it, and if they don't like it they don't have to rub up against it either, do they?

My bet is, she either didn't feel it/notice it, or if she did she liked it. Relax. It's not something to be embarrassed about. Girls normally like that.

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A male reader, loveonce India +, writes (29 May 2011):

loveonce agony auntShe is taking it normally by not mentioning it,and trying to show you that it's quite common thing, so that you may not feel awkward or something!!do not conceive prejudice..and let go shame when you do intimate things

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