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female
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30-35,
*haiight
writes:My boyfriend and I are in a loving relationship and we have a great sex life. I don't know if I'm asking for too much out of sex but I'm young and I have no idea if I've ever really had an orgasm? It's difficult to explain and I know its a mental thing but isn't there a way to tell when you do? Same thing about cumming. How do i know if I came or not? What is it like? The sex feels great I'm just real curious about how these things work and if they've ever happened to me yet. Thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2010): You have obviously never experienced an orgasm. If you had one, you would know it. Trust me. It can't go unnoticed.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (12 June 2010):
 An orgasm and cumming for a woman are the same thing. Women can ejaculate, but it's not generally called cumming. An orgasm feels different for everyone, but it's generally a very distinct moment that feels different than everything else from sex/arousal or whatever you're doing. Your vaginal muscles may twitch, some women feel almost nauseous, some feel light headed. Generally it's a feeling of having built up the sexual energy, and then the orgasm feels like a release. Right after generally your heart will be absolutely pounding and racing and you will feel satisfied/relaxed or like some kind of release just happened. You know that feeling after you really REALLY have to pee and you finally got to? Yeah, kind of like that except way more so. I recommend you try masturbating in different ways. I generally don't like the advice that you'll know you've had one, but with this you probably will. It will feel different from all other sexual feelings. My guess is that if you're asking you haven't had one. So get masturbating!
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