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writes:Hi me and my boyfriend are having problems because he wants me to fit in to his "group" and i dont know what to do.Iv known my boyfriend for two years and we love each other a lot. Usually when ever were not busy were always spending time together sometimes with his friends. He has 5 main friends and i get along with two of them and dont have a problem with the other two, but with one of them i wont come over if shes there or talk at all while she is there (shes one of his other friends girlfriends but i get along with him) I disliked her way before me and my bf got together and he knows that honestly i cant stand her and want nothing to do with her. My bf is saying im making him look like an Ahole though because if he blows off her, her and her bf get mad at him but if he blows me off and just spends time with them than he'll still feel like an Ahole and be the bad guy either way. I dont mean to put him in a position of them or me but i dont see why i should have to be freinds with ALL of his friends but he doesnt wanna chose me or them he wants us all to hang out so i dont know if i should pretend im fine hanging ot with him for his sake or if i should show that im upset while hanging out with them? things have been fine the last couple months but since hes moving in with her boyfriend he wants us to try to get along again and i dont know what to do? Thanks for any advice. Reply to this Question
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (10 March 2013):
 your boyfriend is a wuss. He needs to make it clear to them that everyone may not get along n thats just it. It happens.Now he also needs to compromise with you about spending time with you and you need to respect that he gets along with people you don't like. Dont make him feel guilty for spending time with them. Make sense? It does. Good luck.
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