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I don't feel strong enough to leave my husband, or to stop seeing the other man...

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Question - (24 September 2005) 1 Answers - (Newest, 25 September 2005)
A female , anonymous writes:

I fell in love with another man about a year and half ago but I already have a partner of 18 years who is a lovely man and a great dad to our 3 children. We still get on ok but I am confused. I don't feel fullfilled in my current relationship and find myself thinking of this other man all the time. He feels the same way but neither of us can stop seeing each other. I can't seem to find the strength to end my relationship with my partner. I have been depressed and seen a counsellor who told me I was having a mid life crisis at 35 years old.

I am sick of being in this limbo. What should I do for myself and the kids? Please help, someone!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2005):

Ask yourself: what exactly do I want from this other man? Do I see a future between us with kids together? Hope it helps to clear your confusion.

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