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anonymous
writes:hello everyone...i dont feel like im big enough down there for my wife. she never complained but i just wish i was bigger in order to feel like im really satisfying her. and when she gives me bjs . it doesnt feel like shes having a hard time taking it all and it makes me feel like im just too small..am around 5 inch when erect and my girth isnt really much. im not that thick so i just wonder if there is any wife out there whos really satisfied with a guy who has the same measurements as me..thank you all Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2011): WOmen dont like giant penises anyways... They hurt and limit sexual positions and etc. Plus, why the hell would you want her to struggle while giving you a blowjob? what will that do besides make her not want to do them anymore?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2011): Whatever you do, do not get anything done to make it bigger. Most girls prefer guys around your size, not huge.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (24 October 2011):
 Poster, please don't get riled up by this, but your problem is completely YOUR problem. Your wife has NO problem. You however are the only one who sees your size as a problem. Why on earth would you want to make giving blowjobs unpleasant for your wife? If it was difficult for her to give you one I can guarantee you you wouldn't be getting any. So all in all your problem appears to be a luxury problem, you are having too many blowjobs so you want to make it harder for your wife to give you one. Really, that's what it comes out as.
Put your problem in perspective. You are getting blowjobs. You are enjoying the sex and having a great time at it. Your wife isn't complaining. Now, try to explain to me again what problems you have, because to me this sounds like a great sexual relationship and healthy marriage.
Ask your wife if she feels good during sex and you'll hear it straight from her rather than go around guessing and doubting yourself, which serves no purpose other than making yourself insecure.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2011): I'm average sized, my wife has had many, many, many sexual partners (like well over 200), with guys who had huge penises and guys who had small penises and guys who had average penises.She has only had orgasms with me, only with me.She has only been able to maintain a long term relationship with me.Is she satisfied? Yeah, ongoing after 20 years, she is more than satisfied, we are getting up there in age and we had sex 4 times last week. Why? Because she loves sex with me. We went to movies last week. We had dinner and lunch together more than once last week. She bought me flowers last week and brought them to my office and put them on my desk while I was working. She just had lunch with me during my break.It isn't your penis, it's the relationship that counts. Work on the relationship. Work on the relationship. Work on the relationship. Forget your penis, it's just a dick!
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reader, Koala Bear  +, writes (24 October 2011):
 Also consider some people have limited to no gag reflexes. And pain/difficulty does not usually equal satisfaction.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (24 October 2011):
 sounds like my boyfriend and I'm pleased with him...
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