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I don't feel comfortable making out with my boyfriend, but I don't want to lose him

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Question - (19 June 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 June 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, *amiAzreal writes:

Okay, well..my boyfriend is 15 and im13. I like him and he says he likesme,but im not sure if im livinq up to his expectations. Everytime we're toqether he tries to make out with me and i pull away and i think im makinq him mad..

What shuld i do?!

I don't want to lose him..but im afraid that if i dont do what he wants me to do hes qonna break up with me. . .

How do i satisfy him without beinq uncomfortable?

Please help, ASAP!

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A female reader, demikaijuu United Kingdom +, writes (19 June 2010):

If you dont feel comfortable - don't do it. like stroniumdog says once you bend to one of his demands he'll expect you to do more for him. if he really likes you then he will be happy to take it slow

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A female reader, xanthic United States +, writes (19 June 2010):

xanthic agony auntInstead of worrying about making him mad and how to satisfy him, you should be concerned with how -you- feel and what -you- want to do.

I can already see this becoming a theme. First, you give in and make out with him. Then he says he wants to have sex with you. The further you let him go, the further he's going to try to push you. If you're not ready to do anything, don't let him pressure you into doing it.

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