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writes:ok, so i have a problem. ive been talking to this guy and we have went out twice. after the second date he started calling me "his" angel and he even said that i could "save" him. ive never been the type of girl that falls for lines so this sort of creeped me out. the problem is that i already agreed to go out again with him on friday. (i agreed before he started saying this stuff to me). i dont want to be rude but i really do not feel comfortable around this guy. is it ok to cancel? if it is what should i tell him? thanks! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2010): Absolutely, it's OK! A date should be a consensual thing between two people - it's not something that you are obliged to do. Any moment that you don't feel comfortable, you have the right to pull away and cancel. In fact, it's much better and kinder to tell him (gently) now that you don't see a future together than to go out with him again and continue to get his hopes up, and then crush him. Being honest but kind is far and away the best policy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2010): Yeah, it's ok. You could say, 'You need to be happier with yourself first. Be your own source of happiness'.
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