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I don't enjoy sex anymore, can anyone help?

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Question - (24 April 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 24 April 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

Hi i've been with my boyfriend for 8 years and i don't enjoy sex anymore,nothing he does turns me on, and everytime we have sex my vagina feels hot and stings like friction burn.i've tried lubricant but this doesn't help,and i don't have any stds.can anyone please tell me whats wrong with me?

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A female reader, Angel ron +, writes (24 April 2006):

Angel ron agony auntt a shame sex is such an enjoyable expereince. basically all I can suggest is that their is nothing wrong qith you it happens to us all basically when we are depressed or we have worries or concerns or past problems. Help is alswys at hand for people in your situation bsically to begin with takesthings slowly go with the flow and eventually the feeling may return . Howver you can go your G.P asmdf receive pschosecxual counseilling mightn help you try that approach. or their are books that you might lkie to consider reading to get you in the mood. Like anne hoopers guide to sex, the kama sutra are always the best to ehlp you get the mood and make sex enjoyable.

Cheers take care byeeee:)

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A female reader, baybegurl +, writes (24 April 2006):

heya have you been to the doctors for an sti test that mite help cuz it could be thrush or an infection.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2006):

Sometimes when you get to know someone for so long, you can get stuck in a boring routine. Try to do different things, positions, toys, creams, a warming lotion instead of just lube might help. (Stay away from any that are sugar based or your end up with a yeast infection aka KY lotion.) Or is there an emotional block, do you still feel the same way about the person, you’ve been with? Sex is emotional, especially for women, is there something else bothering you, that’s worked its way into the bedroom?

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