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writes:I don't believe I'm in denial but I've been struggling with who I am recently.... So, I know I am either straight, bicurious (heteroflexible) or maybe a little bisexual but I just really don't know.If you believe you're straight, You're straight right? Because I don't have to keep forcing myself to say I'm straight or lying to myself but I have really bad anxiety about this which makes me tell myself all the time that I'm straight. I don't look at girls the way I look at guys, they turn me on like watching porn and sometimes seeing their bodies but that's about it. I've thought about same sex but don't know if I'd actually go through with it. I'm just really confused, is anyone else going through this?I've been attracted to guys my whole life and that can't suddenly change can it?
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reader, senior sucker +, writes (16 October 2016):
It is just something we chose to try out of curiosity for most. I'm 62, and started sucking other mens cocks at fifty. I find I enjoy doing it, and will continue to do so, while still enjoying women.
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reader, LALAPOOLY +, writes (12 March 2016):
 To say that anyone can answer with absolutes would be to simply lie... We as human beings are share similar components but little else is shared. Our personal circumstances, background, childhood, natural tendencies, learned behavior and so forth creates an exclusivity to whom we are. Thank God for that. Don't try to emulate or be like anyone else for the sake of acceptance. There is no formula so everyone will give an opinion that is wrong regardless of how right they think they may be. In spite of that I will answer by stating what I heard you state and in the manner in which you asked. I personally do not judge anyone's sexuality except when it can become a danger emotionally or physically to anyone involved. (Such as children being used by adults in that realm)... NOT RIGHT...FOR IT IS NOT FAIR AND QUITE UNHEALTHY.Otherwise I feel that one should not allow preconceived judgments to supersede once natural inclinations. Whether or not society agrees... who cares? Because once you give society power over your feelings... you are screwed for life and will make the wrong choices most of the time.That said, here is what I heard in your inquiry:What seems true according to what you have revealed is this:1) You enjoy watching both sexes2) You limit your viewing of same sex acts as you would watch porn for the purpose of arousal I would guess correct?3) It sounds that because you have seen same sex in your mind you want to know whether you are gay? You want to label yourself one or the other? Why?You sound young. Therefore, you have the world at your fingertips - stop trying to limit yourself...experiment and be open to how you feel without making a big dramatic statement. Be free to feel whatever your heart requires for its happiness and enjoyment...Don't go crazy either trying to experiment with every species on the planet...Simply be open but use common sense....Don't make abrupt judgments...and one day you will find whether or not you are gay, bi, straight, all of the above or indifferentjust treat yourself as your own best friend...Be accepting and loving of yourself and you will attract the best for yourself. God Bless you...you may write to me...at your convenience...Rememeber to be vigilant only of those whose intentions feel wrong...Love yourself above all else!You will then be the best lover to others.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (17 February 2016):
 Sweetie try and not put a label on yourself. Believe me this is part of growing up. A lot of people experiment with the same sex while others might be turned on but never act on it. Try not let it get you anxious. Just go with the flow. If you ever feel the need to be with a girl then nothing is stopping you. You don't need to put a label on who you are. You may very well be straight but you are still curious. It is perfectly normal believe me.
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