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I do things with other girls but then feel guilty about it

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Question - (3 July 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 4 July 2010)
A female Guyana age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have never been in a relationship with a female but I have been intimate with a few. I am definately attracted to other girls, I fantasize about kissing them, or having sex with them quiet often. I've even had fone sex and oral sex. Here is the confusing part. When I do all these things with them, I don't really enjoy it, I feel disgusted with myself and guilty, like I've comitted a crime, BUT I still fantasize about doing it again. It doesn't make any sense.

I've told a few friends about it, most of them don't believe me and others think I'm just having fun. My boyfriend is absoulutely against gays, lez and bi's. I tried to tell him, but from his reaction, I told him I was joking.

I don't know what to think anymore.

Am I bisexual, even though I don't actually enjoy being with girls?

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A female reader, Elydiese United Kingdom +, writes (4 July 2010):

Well if you've tried it out with girls and arent enjoying it maybe it is just a fantasy, you've tried and you didnt like it, i say just stick with your boyfriend

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2010):

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I feel happier with my boyfriend, but I fantasize about girls alot.

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A female reader, Elydiese United Kingdom +, writes (3 July 2010):

This does seem really confusing especially if your boyfriend is homophobic do you feel happier with your boyfriend than you have with other girls?

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