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writes:My fiance watches a lot of porn and I don't really mind. He has a fetish for nylons. On a nylon fetish site he found and saved a picture of a group of girls approximately 14yrs old posing for a formal. All in dresses and nylons of course. I don't know what to do. Does the picture mean he is a bad person? Should I believe him that it is just a random picture that he saved? As I said I do not mind him viewing and saving porn; however, a picture that cleary isn't pornographic, but is of 14 year old girls arouses him because of the nylons. I'm not sure what to make of this. Please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2010): The picture wasn't about the girls, it was about the nylons. If that's what he's into, try satisfying his urges so that you won't have to worry about pictures. Get a lot of nylons and prepare to have them ripped up (or whatever he is into).
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (6 July 2010):
 you might think of him as a potential molester of kids. If he were to act on his fetish he might hurt someone. Treat this issue very carefully!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2010): What a creep - just having a nylon fetish would be enough to turn me off, as I always think people like this lack something. Like the child who was constantly beaten, and then cuddled by the parents to say sorry, turns about to be a sado masochist. It's fucked up really and does not stem from a healthy place. So, he then has these pictures on his PC of young girls wearng nylons. So my advice to you, is call the police, get him banged up for looking at child porn, then move on with your life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2010): Looking thru his 'porn history' wont prove nothing, he could look,save to disc and then delete, you need someone to look on harddrive.
You say he dint notice they were 14 year olds, well, you did, and I think your choosing to believe him as accepting that he may have been aroused and the fact they were 14 dint really matter to him, is too hard to bear.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your replies. He doesn't have any other pictures of young girls. Just that one picture. He said he didn't notice their age just their legs.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2010): You need to look through all his porn history. Find out if this is a one off/a mistake or he really does fancy little girls. I hope you do not have teenage daughters.
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reader, Myrrh  +, writes (4 July 2010):
 If his fetish is such, that hes even sexually aroused by minors who wear nylons, then he needs watching. Closely.
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reader, veronika  +, writes (4 July 2010):
 Look - 14 does seem a bit young, and it seems a tad suss if a man of that age thinking about a 14 year old in that way.However, when it comes down to it, was it just the one picture? If he has a nylons fetish, perhaps he's not thinking about young teens on purpose, but rather just happened to come across a picture of a group of girls that turns him on and didn't know they were of that age.If he was habitually downloading pictures of young teens, then I can see you might have to intervene and tell him to stop.For now, approach the subject of it with him and be concerned. But I don't see the need to take drastic action, like calling police. Talk first.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2010): My ex husband had a whole file of porn on his PC, I never saw what was on it, as it was encrypted, one evening my daughter called me upstairs, and told me about her poor friend who had been touched while her father masterbated, i told her she must tell her friend to tell her mum.
My girl knew evdry detail of what was happening to her friend, that i had to ask question..'its not you sweetheart, its not your dad your talking about' She said no at first, but averted her eyes, its not you is it babe i asked again......yes mum, i'm so sorry she said.
After i threw him out, i went onto his computer and cracked his password, it was all teen girls, same age as my (and his) daughter, in varying states of dress, I was married to this man for 14 years. We were a regular couple, and no one had ever thought he was capable.
Personally if i knew then, what i know now, i would contact police, let them take his pc away and see if there is anything else on his hardrive, before you decide to continue your life with him.
My families lives were torn apart, please please dont have children with him till you know what else he is looking at on net. That one pic of the young girls may have been an oversight, but i'd not risk it, and i would never want anyone to go thru what i did as a mum who's daughter got touched by her own father.
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