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writes: hi, i really need some advice. i moved into a new area about a year ago and my three children started a new school. my youngest son made friends with a little boy and his mother and i have since become really good friends. i value her friendship and am ready to help her out. problem is she recently introduced me to her husband who i just can't stand. he is loud, rude, obnoxious, has no manners and just gives me the creeps. my friend has started work and her husband now does school drop offs and pick ups so i see him often, i am happy to say hello and goodbye but don't want anything else to do with this man. as my friend now works if her husband needs help he phones me i'm not happy with this, his children recently had a sleep over at mine and he came round with his wife he was so rude and nosey looking through all my kitchen cupboards i hinted that i was unhappy with the way he just looked in my fridge and cupboards but he didn't stop. i don't know what to do my friend just says to him to sort out things( helping with her children) with me directly and i hate him.I think i'm a bit of a snob i know he has a criminal record and i'm in the legal field i know i shouldn't hold this against him but i just think he is so impolite and crude. problem is now i'm finding that i don't want my children to go to my friends house ' i'm happy for her kids to come here as long as he does not pick them up or drop them off. what should i do. she's a good friend but i'm finding that i'm making excuses not to be with her/ her family because i don't like her husband.
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reader, mande97 +, writes (30 October 2008):
mande97 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you I'm glad that i'm not over reacting by feeling upset that on the 1st time that this man came to my house he was nosey and rude. I am going to hint to my friend and let her know that i'd rather her not bring him around next time. crininal record FRAUD stealing money. I just don't trust this man you're right i should trust my instincts.
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