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writes:i had sex with my ex fiance for many times but i didnt bleed! does this mean im still virgin? because we separated and im afraid of the future, i dont want to tell any body that i had sex.how can i hide this thing from my future fiance? other than surgery.plz help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks
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reader, deejuliet  +, writes (15 July 2007):
 Being a virgin or not has absolutely nothing to do with bleeding, it has to do with penetration. If his penis has been inside your vagina you are no longer a virgin.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2007): Hiya,
Firstly, you have had sex, and honesty is the key, however if you really dont want anyone to know your not a virgin thats totally your choice.
In regards to bleeding, i didnt bleed when i lost my virginity, you normally bleed when the hymen is broken, but i always used tampons ect and mine was already broken.Plus maybe going to 2nd base with a partner can break it also ie fingers.
So there are many reasons why you dont bleed, even gymnasts have been known to break the hymen due to the movements ect
Hope this helps
:-) x x
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reader, sweeite  +, writes (15 July 2007):
not all people bleed when they 1st have sex as everyones body is different, all i can say to this is dont worry about weather or not you bleed as you are no longer a virgin from the first time you have sex. take care xx
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reader, flower girl +, writes (15 July 2007):
 As soon as you have had sex you are no longer a virgin anymore, and we don't all bleed when we have sex for the first time so don't worry about that.
Take care.xx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2007): Sorry to tell u but ur not a virgin anymore. Virginity is when the penis has not been in the vagina, but u did it already so u lost it. U can still say your a virgin if you want because he didn't pop your cherry. So it really doesn't matter it's what u think!!!
Hope this helped!!!
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