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writes: well me and my boyfriend tell each other everything and lately this has been bugging me ..he hates it that i even had sex with 1 preson (sorta) because he only has with 1 girl too but anyways there were a few guys that i didnt actually have sex with because right before they even got it in like only 1 inch maybe we stopped so its not really sex ..and i CANNOT tell him or we will break up because i kept it from him so long ..it didnt bother me this much before now it only does sometimes so is it okay to just try and forget it since it wasnt really sex? i mean i would see how i should tell him if i did have sex with them but i didnt. IF i would have actually had sex with them i would deff. tell him. by the way they were ex's, i didn't cheat on this guy..thanks! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTHANKS SO MUCH YOU TWO!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2006): what happen in the past should not matter, you 2 should be focusing on whats happening now not what happen in your past relationships, talking about that stuff just causes unwanted problems.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2006): Does he know that you "fooled around" with other guys? If you don't class it as sex and you know that it will upset him, don't tell him.I'm sure he kissed and felt up other girls before he knew you and its not unusual that you would have gotten close to sex with other people.The main thing is that you have been loyal to him and haven't cheated and he doesn't have to know all the details of what you got up to with your exes. I wouldn't worry too much.
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