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writes:Hi, I need help I made a mistake by deleting the numbers of some hot girl who lives nearby my place.. What happened was when she gave me her numbers that day she was handling her phone call, when I asked who was it she said it was her boyfriend, they were going to meet at that time and that totally turned me off, the problem is I like her but she has a boyfriend and I don't really know anything about her relationship wit him, let alone much about her.. I realized that I was going to waste my time and energy going after her and telling her how I feel, but now I'm having second thoughts about it and it makes me regret that moment when I deleted her numbers because of the disappointment.. I hesitate asking for her numbers again and I really feel like telling her how I feel but I don't know how because we haven't really had the chance to know each other
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reader, DBongs +, writes (30 October 2011):
DBongs is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBut guys I feel like I'm falling in love here, yes you are right or maybe when deliberately told me she is waiting for her boyfriend she wanted to get rid of me in a sense of showing she is taken.. but everytime I see her and when she looks at me... Can't she gets it also? I mean, I just need that moment to know her physically and emotionaly and vise vesa so we can see where it leads to. because seeing her and not saying anything but greeting her... it makes me feel like I don't know what I want, as if I'm a loser to her
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reader, Lola1  +, writes (16 September 2011):
 I 100% agree with the advice sammi star gave you. There is just WAY TOO MUCH drama-heart-ache-opportunity there!
I would add that she will respect you more if she were to find out (ONLY if the opportunity comes up to say it casually) that you didn't want to give her boyfriend the wrong impression by calling her.
For example, some day she asks why you didn't call, or you find out she broke up with her boyfriend and you choose to ask for her numbers again (which I wouldn't for the reasons sammi gave you).
Good luck.
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reader, Thelaird1  +, writes (16 September 2011):
 Deleting the number was for the best. She is a dishonest person and probably has many guys on the go.
You deleted her number through gut instinct. Rely on it. You did the right thing.
If you got into a relationship with this girl, then I'm sure you would be visiting this site with regrets and mistrust
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2011): Do not ask her again. Who knows why she gave you her number if she already has a boyfriend. Maybe they were going to break up or maybe she is just unfaithful, but if they were breaking up I think she should have said that. This makes her suspicious. There are a lot of beautiful women out there who are faithful. Better to just let this one go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2011): Sammi is completely right - if she has a boyfriend but is still giving out her number to other guys she is not trustworthy. She is keeping her options open, waiting for someone better to come along. You shouldn't want to be with someone like that. She might be hot now, but hot quickly becomes unattractive when someone treats you disrespectfully. Be glad you deleted her number and forget about her - she's taken.
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reader, sammi star +, writes (16 September 2011):
 You were right to delete her number. She has a boyfriend. Take a step back and ask yourself if you'd really want to be with a girl who will readily give her number out to guys she doesn't know anyway even while she's with someone.
If the two of you ended up together you wouldn't be able to trust her anyway as you'd always be wondering if she was still giving her number out to any man that wants it.
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