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writes: Long story short. Everything was going great with my bf of 2 months up until 2 weeks ago. He thought I was cheating on him. I wouldn't pick up my phone when I went out with my girlfriends or went to my friend's house, so he thought I was cheating. Last Sat. night he called and I told him I would call him later and I didn't because my friends and I got into an accident. He called me 13 times and left 8 text messages and I got back to him the next morning. He thought this was weird and ever since he wants nothing to do with me. I didn't cheat. He claims that he doesn't want a gf and just wants to have sex with girls. He says now he doesn't care if I see other guys, and it was just sex with me, nothing more. Is he scared of getting hurt? I don't get it, please help me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2006): I totally agree with Smeedle. What type of guy does that?!? Talk about insecure, controlling, and overwhelmingly sensitive to nothing!
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reader, smeedle +, writes (13 February 2006):
Bin the boy and find a man, he is just not with the programme, nothing that a few years will not put right but have you time to babysit his insecurities or are you mature enough to move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2006): I think he sounds very immature and possessive.
Sometimes people can't contact each other - phones go dead, phones get lost, we drive out of signal, all sorts of things. If every time that happens people thought their partner had cheated on them - imagine all the fights and break ups.
I think your boy is very insecure and I think he needs some time on his own to sort out his jealous streak. I think you sound too mature for him
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