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writes: My boyfriend came back from overseas and I didn't hear from him for a few days as he was catching up with family and friends,and I had no way of contacting him, nor was his mobile working. During this time I was in panic because he didn't call me and I worried like any partner would, I broke down and there was only one person that I could turn to and it was one of his mates overseas that knows us as a couple I called him because I didn't know who else to talk to and he knew my bf and i. I was feeling alone and angry with him and felt unimportant and his friend was there to make feel better and made me strong.Now my boyfriend has a new mobile that is working and he sent a text saying he loves me, and that he'll be calling me soon...My problem is that I want us to have a honest relationship, but I know that he'll be bothered that I called his mate for some emotional support because this mate is one of the only people that know us as a couple as we had a long distance relationship. Therefore, since my bf was not available when i needed him, I called our mutual friend from overseas as he knows us both. What should I do about chatting to his mate? I know that he'll respond by saying that everytime something is wrong that I always run to him... Which isn't the case... This time i could not get hold of him.What should i do? tell him, or keep that part away from him, as i know this mate won't say anything either because of the state i was in. HE hurt me and I will tell him that.Any opinions?
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reader, chachacha  +, writes (19 April 2006):
Tell your bf that you were worried when he didn't call you and you couldn't contact him, and that you called his friend.
It's not like there is anyting going on between you and his friend - it's normal to try to find out what is going on.
Ask you bf to let you know where he is, and to keep in contact with you, so you don't worry.
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