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writes: I've been with my boyfriend for a year. During the summer when I went out with my friends, I got drunk and began flirting with a guy in a night club. I danced with him all night and it got steamy. At the end of the evening, I kissed him on the cheek and neck, but not on the lips. He wanted me to go home with him, but I said no. Instead, we exchanged phone numbers. He called me the next day, but I told him I wasn't interested. We have not spoken since. Should I tell my boyfriend?[The question asker also posted this question: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-flirting-with-other-people-because-he-flirts.html]
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2007): no, don't tell him... u've got turned on by someone and still u didn't go for it, bear the guilt of being flirty, but there's no reason why u should make ur bf suffer too, especially since in the end u've managed to b strong and say one final NO...
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2006): No...its just a kiss..you didn't cheat on him..so stop worrying. Its better you say nothing to him, you didn't go home with him, so you have done nothing to feel ashamed...possibly a bit of flirting got a little bit out of hand. Don't worry, just enjoy life. Hope this helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2006): I agree with shandy pop its not worth telling him this, nobodys perfect and just put it down to the drink and maybe feeling slightly neglected!.
And by the looks of the link to your previous question he sounds like hes a bit of a flirt too so just snigger to yourself about it!.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2006): Don't tell your boyfriend. Look at it as a bit of fun that you will not be doing again. Just put it out of your mind. Don't spoil everything by telling him. What will it achieve? Mayhem!! Just forget about it and put it down to experience. Take care.
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reader, jack23 +, writes (7 November 2006):
 If I was you I would tell him, after all it was only a kiss and not even on the lips. If he cant let it go then hes not very forgiving, but should appriciate the honesty. At the end of the day you know him best and know what his reaction should be.
As you have come on here asking what to do I would assume you are feeling guilty, and telling him would prob help rid of that feeling. Is there any chance someone else might tell him of that he could find out by some other means? If so wouldnt it be better to hear it from you?
Hope it works out :)
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