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writes:i cheated on a guy i was in a 9 year relationship with. i relize it was because i was feeling extremely low about myself. part of this was his fault and he has yet to see this and to this day is still doing some of the same exact things he was then but i have picked myself up and feel better about myself now. i will not cheat on any one again. we have decided to try and work things out. my question is this. do i try to work things out or cut my losses and go on with my life? Reply to this Question
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (13 November 2007):
 Hi,
It all depends how serious the "things" that he did are?
If he is still doing them then what makes you think this will work the second time round?
I think you really need to sort out what drove you to this in the first place, and if you two can't come to an arrangement , then it probably would be best for you to cut your losses.
A counsellor would be the best bet, that way you both can lay out your concerns and it will allow you to see his point of view through a neutral third party.
good luck!
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