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writes:Hi, I would appreciate some help here.I've been going out with a friend of mine Kelvin for dinners/movies for the past month. Sometimes he'll come pick me up and sometimes he'll pick the tab as well. It all seems like a normal date but he didn't try to hold my hand or anything.So I asked him if we're dating or just friends. He did not give me any specific answer and said he wants to share his thoughts with me and asked me out again for dinner....and he didn't even bring up the topic at all during dinner. After dinner, he asked me out again next week.He told my friend that we're just friends and he has issues holding him back. But I feel normal friends do not go out as often and I just wanna know if we're just friends or something more....which he's just giving me replies that's neither here nor there all the time.What is he trying to do? Reply to this Question
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (22 July 2007):
 I think maybe should should just give him some time, he obviously like you if he keeps taking you out and he has told your friend that he has issues which are holding him back.
Maybe he is just trying to work through these issues himself and that is why he is taking things slow.
What we have to remember is it is very hard for some men to be so open about things, and if you try to push them too soon they just back away even more.
Take care.xx.
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (22 July 2007):
 Try asking him again because you just want to know where you stand.
It sounds to me like he's taking you out, but he does seem to be holding back. Try asking him one more time as you don't want to seem too pushy. If he still doesn't answer maybe your mate can get a few more answers out of him?
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