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writes: I am a 25 year old lady who is 5 months pregnant, but am in love with an old flame who is involved with someone else. I can't get him out of my head and I know I have to get him out of my head for my baby's sake but I just can't stop thinking bout him and I see him all the time. We are good friends now but am struggling with what to do. Please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (31 May 2005):
 Perhaps seeing him all the time isn't helping matters. It is keeping it fresh in your mind.You do need to draw a line under this though. You are pregnant and I am assuming the baby isn't his. You need to develop your relationship with the baby's father if you care about him and stop thinking about your ex. If you concentrated your efforts in doing this, it could help.He is also seeing someone else which further cements the line that you must draw. You know in your mind that thinking about him is pointless.Concentrate on thinking about the future for your baby. Set yourself some goals. Think of other activities you can do. Avoid your ex to help you get over him. All these things can help.
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