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writes:i cant get over my ex!im 18 and hes 25. and its been 6 weeks! even when im out with my friends i try my best not to think about him but i cant help it! i cant but think how much i wana be with him! when we were together it was amazing! and now its just not! we didnt break up in a bad way at all! and i seriously think i have a problem! just cant get over it! help!!!!! its like im obsessed!
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reader, Reebe +, writes (5 January 2007):
 Oh dear yeah we have all been there. Time is a great healer no matter how tacky it sounds!
Give yourself time at bed time to remember him and have a little cry but refuse to let it get you down all day long. Push it too the back of your mind and enjoy going out with your friends!
It does get easier and everyone goes through it, it just sucks at the time.
Keep smiling!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2007): Don't worry we have all been there. You are not obsessed. You are only 18 and the relationship ended only 6 weeks ago so you are bound to feel it still. Things will get better in time. Try not to dwell on him though. Get something to occupy your mind, keep busy. Dance about the house to some really lively dance music. Go for a long walk. Arrange a night in/out with your friends. But do stop wallowing in this misery it will lead nowhere.
Take care
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2007): Don't worry we have all been there. You are not obsessed. You are only 18 and the relationship ended only 6 weeks ago so you are bound to feel it still. Things will get better in time. Try not to dwell on him though. Get something to occupy your mind, keep busy. Dance about the house to some really lively dance music. Go for a long walk. Arrange a night in/out with your friends. But do stop wallowing in this misery it will lead nowhere.
Take care
xx
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reader, I can solve any problem +, writes (5 January 2007):
tell him how you feel your not obsessed you just need to get it out of your system talk to him you never know he might be thinkin and feelin the same and if not it may take time but you'l have to move on there's plenty more fish in the sea and maybe even better everythin happens for a reason maybe your just not meant to be and if you are then you will.
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reader, rammsteinfan  +, writes (5 January 2007):
 You are not obsessed...you are just experiencing the grief! I totally agree with helpful girl! In fact I went full-force into my artwork and took the passion that I once felt for ex-bf and put it there. It actually worked! I even have an online gallery, which I posted in my profile, of the art i did (feel free to go on and check it out if you want)
Well, I surely got over my ex, and the next time that I saw him I was wondering to myself "what in the world did I ever see in him"?
I even found someone else that was lots more wonderful than my ex could ever be! Time heals all wounds!!
Love and Hugs to you!
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