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writes: I think my boss is interested in me and I can't get him off of my mind. What should I do?
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reader, bonym  +, writes (1 June 2006):
 Well firstly having a relationship with your boss is not always a good idea. You need to establish if he really is interested in you and then if he is, I hope he is single, otherwise there will be major problems. If he does like you then you need to decide if you want to take things further, remember he is your boss, are you happy to have your lover be your boss, the one who gives you orders, has the power to dismiss you etc etc? What if it didnt work out and then you were unfairly dismissed? I am not trying to put doom on a potential relationship, but you need to consider is it REALLY WORTH IT? I mean do you love him, is it just a sexual attraction, or what. You need to think long and hard, are you ready for this, will if affect your work etc. My dear I know you perhaps want us to tell you what to do but I cant do that, only you know within yourself what is best. Just consider all the issues that come with it. xXx
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reader, smeedle +, writes (31 May 2006):
 Are you interested in him ? what makes you sure he is interested in you, be careful and oftern going out with the boss causes all kinds of resentment and trouble at work, not to mention the issues of is he married and does he have kids, then there is the problems of what happens if you row or split up, this will inevitably impact on your working life and may be responsible for you having to leave your job.
Affairs at work are one thing but going out with the boss is a totally different ball game and one you need to think about very seriously.
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