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anonymous
writes:hey i have been a pretty bad girl lately fo rsome reason....i have cheated on my boyfriend alot and i dont know why..he's the best i mean he's closest to perfect as you can get. but my ex's makes move on me all th etime and i let them and sometimes when they try to kiss me i kiss back i dont know why. i love my boyfriend really i do we've been together almost 3 years but i cant seem to stop cheating on him is this normal? Why do i cheat on him when i know i love him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2007): do you really love him or are you mistaking it for lust? thats the biggest mistake most people make? you need space to really figure this, because true love will stop you and you'll be satisfied with this one person.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2007): do you really love him or are you mistaking it for lust? thats the biggest mistake most people make? you need space to really figure this, because true love will stop you and you'll be satisfied with this one person.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2007): If you had a break from him maybe you could work out your real feelings. Has anyone ever cheated on you? If your boyfriend found out he would feel really low - and even if you do / don't love him if he was your best friend you would hate to see him so hurt. Do the right thing and have a break from him so that you can work things out in your head. My gut instinct is that you are really craving attention / affection and that one guy, however loving, ain't enough for you. There are many ways to give and receive love from all kinds of people - perhaps think about trying to feel really good about life in general too. Only ideas but hope it helps. You are being honest with yourself - thats a positive first step
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2007): Dont worry. It's normal. youre just too afraid that you might wake up one day, old and tired, and worry that you havent had your share of fun in life. You may love your guy, but temptations will always call. It's avbout fighting it. or walking out for a while, having several flings an seeing if your man's the real person you want to be with. Trust me, you'll know your guy is the best in the end.
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