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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes: i have had sex hundreds of times but have never experienced orgasm. i tried to read about it...one should relax, experience the love, positions, excitement, days of the months and blah-blah-blah...but nothing has worked for me. what to do??
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reader, chigirl +, writes (7 September 2011):
Have you ever tried to rub your clitoris and get an orgasm on your own?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2011): do it yourself, try any technique you can find online, and whatever feels the best keep doing it till the orgasm arrives.. Most women need to discover what makes them orgasm themselves. I would give you more info but I don't think it's appropriate for this site.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2011): Experience orgasm on your own first. The brain is actually the most important sex organ, so make sure you are adequately turned on by some great fantasy/thoughts and feeling aroused. The try stimulating your clitoris with your fingers and see what feels good. Without the pressure of being with a partner you can relax and let things happen.
The more you chase orgasms the harder they are to achieve. Just set the right environment/mood yourself and explore.
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