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writes: I am 19 and i have had sex about 5 or 6 times with different women, yet none of these women have made me come, most men would like this as it means i can last a long time but i am desperate to have an orgasm through sex, my last experience lasted over 2 hours and i STILL didnt come, even though i was totally sober, as was she. help!
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reader, Mr.Ed +, writes (14 December 2005):
 Might want to see a doctor because that's not normal at all. Yes there are times when a man does not ejaculate once in awhile; however it is a medical condition that has a terminology. Your semen can go back into your bladder and be dissolved in urine. Several factors go into a man having an "orgasm". Any one thing can effect that. Prescription medicine, alcohol (by the way it takes 21 days for the effect of alcohol to be completely removed from your body with no side effects accept mental state), drugs, Emotions, Tiredness, Anxiety and the person your with. If you do or do not ejaculate you still need to be checked out by a medical doctor and a pshycologist. It is also possible that if your using condomns the spermicide inside of them can cause a numbing effect as well as the condomn has it's own effect, causing you to not feel the intensity leading to your climax. Just be assured that 65% of all males experience some type of ED (erectile dissfunction) and that I have too. It just happens, but if you told the readers that you were sober then I would ask you to stop drinking for a month/ or forever and try again. You might also try not masturbating for a week or two. If your at your peak and ready to explode after all that and you just can't do it; GET TO THE DOCTOR.
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reader, Mr.Ed +, writes (14 December 2005):
Might want to see a doctor because that's not normal at all. Yes there are times when a man does not ejaculate once in awhile; however it is a medical condition that has a terminology. Your semen can go back into your bladder and be dissolved in urine. Several factors go into a man having an "orgasm". Any one thing can effect that. Prescription medicine, alcohol (by the way it takes 21 days for the effect of alcohol to be completely removed from your body with no side effects accept mental state), drugs, Emotions, Tiredness, Anxiety and the person your with. If you do or do not ejaculate you still need to be checked out by a medical doctor and a pshycologist. It is also possible that if your using condomns the spermicide inside of them can cause a numbing effect as well as the condomn has it's own effect, causing you to not feel the intensity leading to your climax. Just be assured that 65% of all males experience some type of ED (erectile dissfunction) and that I have too. It just happens, but if you told the readers that you were sober then I would ask you to stop drinking for a month/ or forever and try again. You might also try not masturbating for a week or two. If your at your peak and ready to explode after all that and you just can't do it; GET TO THE DOCTOR.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2005): perhaps u should find a girl dat u actually like?
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reader, lisa_01  +, writes (14 December 2005):
 i would not worry, maybe you need to experiment abit more so you can learn what will make you reach that point, my bf and i always have sex for two hours or longer and their has been only been maybe 3 or 4 times we its taking him less then 1 hour,to tell you the truth after awhile having sex for 2 hours or longer can be painful and sometimes bit boring if the excitement fades but if it doesnt it can be great for both people involved , if you keep up the excitement and experiment with different techniques and spots or even try it maybe in a different place rather then the bed might help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2005): i agree!! 2 hours would be great (maybe a little boring after a while though).
maybe you are stressed. try letting go and thinking of nothing besides sex when you are having sex. maybe you need to fantasize. what about trying to be in the same frame of mind that you are in when you masturbate (assuming that you can at least make yourself cum).
then again, you have only had sex 5-6 times. maybe you need to practice at it just as some females need to. good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2005): Maybe you are gay?? But if I was that girl I would have loved to have gone for two hours that would be great.
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