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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have an interest in a person and can't get my mind off of him. I can't see him very often, we're both married, it's a difficult situation, but it's driving me crazy. I don't want to say anything to him...but I do think it's reciprocated. I am suffering here. Aren't crushes supposed to feel good???
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2007): I don't know how to stop thinking about someone, I also tried before. But somehow it worked at the end. Try not to get in contact with him. If you are in temptation, call a friend. Maybe you know someone you can trust and tell about your feelings. And maybe this person will be next to you, when ever you need it. If your releationship to your husband is good enough, you could tell him, but if you don't feel comfortable about this, tell an other person. Try to detract from thinking of him. Call a friend, read a book, listen to good musik, go out, do anything what could help. Above all try to do something with your husband as much as you can, so that you realise how much he meens to you.
Don't let your feelings dominate your live and mind. Use your brain and remember the promise you gave your husband.
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reader, been_there +, writes (13 April 2007):
 Think of the connotations of the word 'crush'- if u crush a flowerdoesn't it make it die? if it was supposed to feel good it would be called a "crush"
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