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writes: hi, last year i fell for this girl knowing that she had a boyfriend. things didnt go well and i havent spoke to her since then. thing is that after a year i am still mad about her and i cant have a proper relationship with another girl because everytime i see her strong feelings reappear. i cant get her outa my head and i want her more then ever but i dont know what to do. please help Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2006): hi,i can imagine how ur feeling im going thro the sme thing right now. exept im the girl and i have some 1 who for six years has been in love with me. you see i liked him and he rejected me and when i got a b/f he decied he wanted me this was 6 years ao and he still sas that he would do anything for me and that he loves me. we lost contact for a little while and i had a baby with a guy iv been with for 2 yrs. and now that iv heard from him again its mucked my head up because i think that i have feelings for him and i feel so rubbish coz i dunno what to do. 1 hing he did say to me tht made me realize how much he cared was that wen he found out i was pregnant he decided to let me go to let me get on with my life. the fact that he put my feelings over his own just shows he really duz care. so think about it what would u do for this girl do u love her anough to let her go? you have to take into consideration whats happening in her life and what you telling her how you feel will do to her.
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reader, Cazzie Rox22 +, writes (20 September 2006):
I know exactly what you mean and i'm going through the same situation at the moment and i know how hard it is. Your not alone in these feelings.
I would recommend you try concentrating or whatever else you can.
If not then you need to find out how she feels about you and possibly let those feelings for her out. If you don't feel it is right to tell her how you feel talk to a friends or someone about it.
Love Always
Caz
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2006): Is she showing any signs that she likes you back?
If yes, tell her you like her, ask her out...
If no, you need to keep yourself busy to try and take your mind off this girl, or you'll end up getting hurt.
I know it's difficult, I've been in this situation myself, but you really need to work out if she likes you back.
Hope this helps!
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