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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: Dear Cupid. I really hope you can help me. Im in a long term relationship but lately ive been having doubts about where it is going. Ive also just started a new job in the past few months and met a guy who ive developed a massive crush on. I have told the guy at work that i like him, but he was caught off guard and wasnt sure how to react and later told me he has commitment issues. This was a few weeks ago now and we have both continued on as if it never happend, but i still cant get him out of my head and have no idea what i should do and its driving me insane. Any advice you could give me would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.
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reader, janniepeg +, writes (16 November 2014):
If you don't know whether to continue with your relationship, then focusing on other people isn't going to help with your decision. It just becomes a distraction. I think you are having a crush because you are not getting what you want from your boyfriend. If you are brave enough to end the relationship right now then you won't be stuck in this. You would be proactively moving on and looking for more suitable partners.
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