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36-40,
anonymous
writes:It’s abt a girl from my work, we shared a kind of relationship at one time but broke up and now its been 6 months since we last had a word but she is still on my head all the time 24 x 7... She used to have a bf but she wasn’t happy with her relationship, according to her, he wasn’t the right guy and I think that’s why we came close. she always knew that I loved her a lot and i try my heart out to make her happy, i treat her like a princess with little gifts, flowers, dropping n picking her from home during freezing winters… did everything to put a smile on her beautiful face... as far as I know she loved me as well but suddenly one day she felt that she and her bf are meant for each other and our relationship shouldn’t exist. She was with her bf since last 2-3yrs so seeing from her point of view I thought may b she is right and if that makes her happy that’s fine and I was about to accept that fact, though it would’ve been really hard for me. But before it could all end up with peace, I saw her flirting with another guy and her ‘so called’ best friend told me that as well…. Around a week after that I she broke up with her bf too… and all that drove me crazy and I didn’t talk to her since then…. I don’t know y but I tried to talk to her 2 months ago but she refused with her attitude and stubborn natureI truly loved her or i should say i still do.... but its not taking me anywhere... i tried everything to forget her but nothing s helping.. the main problem is that i see her face everyday at work as we work in the same deptt. since its complete cut off so no hi-hello infact we dont even look at each other... but i still love her to bits.... places we visited, memories of time we spent together all makes me cry. All the time, i think of her her and her.!!! No one in her life yet but it seems that she has forgotten everything already, so i too pretend that i m over it and my life is normal too but its NOT.... its MISERABLE!please advice..!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2009): I think you should maybe send her a card if your not comfortable talking to her. Just tell her how you feel. Point Blank. Hold nothing back but choose your wording carefully.
If she truley feels anything for you then maybe she will respond in some way.
If not. You need to move on, meet someone new. Its hard but really. If she's not coming around life is too short.
The way you talk I honestly think she's stupid to not see how great you are
good luck!
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