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female
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writes:why would he hide his cel? i can't touch his cel ever if he comes in my house, he makes sure he doesn't have his cel with him,he reasons out he is avoiding arguments that will spark if i try to see who calls. he said i might call his co-workers or friends and ruin his relationships with them. pls. help. last night i was at church and i received a text from him that he might be coming over to my house a little late coz his friend's mom has to be rushed to ER and that he got one bar left on his cel. tried to call him, twice, he didn't answer til the 3rd call i made. he said he's outside his friend's house and asked him why he didnt pick his phone upimmediately. he said again he's saving his battery so wehen his friend's come back,he knows. i was crying and then he again said that his phone rings as normal even if its off. am i that stupid? stupid enough not to realize how he fool me up to this time? why would he say hje wanna marry me?pls. help,it makes me so depressed that i dont knwo what im doing. i dont wanna give too much of myself and then juz he fools me around.
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reader, clairebear  +, writes (19 May 2007):
 Hey hun lets get one thing straight youre not stupid ok!!!! ive been in your position my ex had two mobiles he'd be forever going through mine but as soon as i got near his he'd break out into a cold sweat. men have this thing of emotionally fucking with your head, as soon as you have an arguement it would be all 'i love u's' and 'marry me, 'your the best thing i ever known/been with/blah blah'. any decent guy would want you to meet his collegues/friends/family not try and stop you. dont know if the same applies in america but over here in the u.k you have to turn your fone off in hospitals, so whys was his on in the E.R? have you noticed other little niggles like he'll call you from a bar but its way too quiet in the background or he never wants to go out as a couple rather get a takeaway and stay at home..these are just a few niggles i had but ignored them til it came out he'd got sum girl pregnant, if they is any doubt cut your losses and get out i know i would.......hope this helps??!
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