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writes: i am 44 years old and asking if is it natural for my age that i cant be happy having sex,but i can be more happi when i do masturbation while watching some porn video,do you think this is no back affects?hope to hear your adivce
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2006): well,thanks for all your opinions i am just telling you my own experiences in sex,but i have been in relation with 4 guys before as i maaried two time and before i got married i have the experience having sex with my first boyfriend and with my first husband,which i am happy with sex maybe because he always drives me crazy in bed,and i would even ask for more,besides he have the biggest dick i ever had,and after that i marry again,which i think very unhappy life in sex,maybe because he will always depends with his happinesshe is automatically come out and cant wait tell im about to go ut already,so then i always fell the fraustrations,then it end with break up ibt its been a long time already,so whats created in my mind while i am watching a porn movies i cant understand my feeling as if my body is shacking,soi decided to look for something so i can ease my feeling of excitement but i always successful in everytime i do,then last i meet my chatmate in person,ohhhhhhhhhh i notice as i am not virgin anymore but what a big surprise to me when he is naked and ready to makelove i see his dick,then i said to myself.....ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh my god?what a big big dick i think 9 inches?but whether is it big or not it will still fits in,so gently everything is okay but that relation os only for a moment as we broke up after he is going back in his hometown for some reasons,it is really sad for me, but what should i do when he dont like and want to talk to me anymore...sad sad sad...so i musy do go back what makes me happy...no choice...
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2006): Go ahead, im a female 27 and love to watch portn by myself it makes me come a lot quicker that with my boyfriend. Nothing i like more than glass of wine, porn and by vibrator ( particularly clit stimulator).
Keep having fun no harm in it!!
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reader, cherryred +, writes (27 November 2006):
cherryred is verified as being by the original poster of the question okay,
thanks for all your advice,and i am happy to hear from you more so i can gather more information,i maybe wrong to do this but my mind command me so i must obey...
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reader, pica +, writes (26 November 2006):
Well, I'd say bad effects are that porn will never buy you dinner, tickle your feet, take to to see a film or just cheer you up if you are down. It will get you off but you can't cuddle it afterwards. You can't discuss your problems with it and it will never say 'I love you' - if it does, it's lying.
What you get is a physical thrill and if that's what you are after then I guess it does the job. Aside from that it won't fill any relationship gap. Long term it would be better to address your sex/relationship problems.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2006): I think it's natural for any age. Well, maybe to those who have already experienced sex I mean.
Porn is a raw, brutal, and blunt representation of our core sexual desires. It affects our psyche to the point where becomes a huge booster in achieving super satisfying orgasms by just masturbating. With another person, sometimes, you can't help but feel if s/he is receiving a similar amount of pleasure, if s/he is satisfied, if s/he would accept this sort of sexual experiment, and so on and so forth. In reality with a person, that person may have reservations that we as individuals may feel rejected if we try to act out those fantasies. Plus, by nature, our raw desires aren't singular, and more plural. That's how we know who is hot and who isn't, or what is beautiful and what isn't, or what is more attractive and appealing and what isn't.
I know more married and single 34+ year old women who are unsatisfied with their sex life and go to masturbation and porn, than ones who are happy with their sex life and their partners.
And I don't quite understand your question. What do you mean by "no back affects"? Did you want to ask, "no bad effects" instead? If it's the later, then no, I would say no bad effects. Unless of course, you're in a relationship and it's causing strife in that relationship, then yes, there are bad effects then.
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reader, cherryred +, writes (26 November 2006):
cherryred is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhello to all,
thanks for posting my question hoping i can hear any adivce from you gurls..i am happy to hear from you
thanks...
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