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I can't believe that my ex would say awful things about me behind my back...

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Question - (31 July 2005) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 August 2005)
A , anonymous writes:

I'm a 16 year old girl and I have a really big problem.

A year ago I met this really amazing guy *James. We started going out with in a few days of meeting each other. We fell in love with each other and he worked so hard to make me see that he really was in love with me but we broke up but still stayed friends and often kissed and on a few time we slept together.

He says that he still really cares for me (and I know him well enough to know he wouldn't say something like that if he never meant it) But recently this girl who knows him has been coming on my yahoo accont and telling me that he has been saying some really nasty things about me behind my back.

He says he doesn't like this girl and she clearly doesn't know him that well because she cant spell his surname right but it has really started to worry because he is like one of my best friends and I can never imagine my life without him in it in some way.

But I really dont know what to think about what this girl is saying...What should I do about it??

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A female reader, imsocute01 +, writes (9 August 2005):

imsocute01 agony auntWell first do you know this girl? If not she is saying thoes things only to make you mad. Even if you do know her, she still could be saying that. Go to him and ask him if he said it.

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A female reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx United Kingdom +, writes (1 August 2005):

xxxsoulsistaxxx agony auntAs much as I am proud to be one and hate to admit it, girls can be terrible bitches! She's probably just jealous of the relationship you had and still have with him and wants to cause problems. Don't let her! Speak to him and ask him about what she's been saying. If you know him as well as you say you do, you should be able to tell whether he is lying or not. Don't let someone else come between you, make sure you find out the truth before ruining a good relationship. :)

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