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writes:Im always Misunderstood and Im FED UP always explaining things to ppl,and now my bf suspect me of infedility and unloving him..this is a Brief explanation:Im 24,curently back at home to my parents to finish my last Huge Exam and research paper.I spended all my savings,and hardly have money to push up till graduation.MY BF who i know Only 4 months But IM in LOVE,Is working Now in another country.He called me,And I want to visit him,But CAN ONLY afford money for my TIcket.He took my saying "Dont Know",as a sigh of infedility or who knows what And now stopeed to contact me!When we Met I had pretty money,and also was summer and leisure time for me,so he Saw Me in a "party" way.But HE DOESNT KNOW THAT I dont Get On well with my parents(whom im now dependent)and Doesnt know that when i was in my University city and stayed day-extra,That actually the wine and dinner and staying was paid from my ex-roomaid and that I wasnt spending money on fun or whatever.2Nd,I told him i came back with CAR(didnt have time to answer his calls)and that the travel was a bit prolonged,BUT didnt have energy to explain that THE CAR owner was a MAN that actualy was coming to see my GF,and i just was making him company till she released herself from work. Now he IS angry,He presumably thinks IM: 1.CHEATING on him(and i have bunch of things in my mind and daily schedual that hardly put up with)2.That I dont WANT to VISIT him(and im run out of money) and finally I dont 3.LOVE HIM(and actauly my Energy is wasted half and more every day Thinking of Him)and that im 4.Satisfied and HAPPY(actualy im pretty depressed coz i have no means now to solve this things).Can anyone tell me how can I solve this, How to manage all and should i Tell him what the situation is exactly? Isint not a Humbling to tell him that I will come without Money? I fell agry at times,for him not being Able to Even Guess how the things are stanidng,instead jump into conclusions that are far from reality(Like my parents for Ex)and I have no more nerves no Like to spare energy again on ppl Like them,It is proved to be futile. Pls,any advice would be Very very Welcome and useful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questiongreat nobady answers but me :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYou should explain the things as You did here. Ask him openly what he wants and not only then you ll know where You re standing. Tell him ur in lack of money and that You want to come and see how he would react...Maybe he would help you,and is likely if he is in love with you. You seem a bit confused and better would be to settle urself first,Your thoughts and everything. Good luck
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