A
female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:I just want to know if something is wrong with me because I cannot orgasm when we are having intercourse. It just does not happen, it only happens when he uses his tongue or finger. Does anybody know how to have an orgasm during intercourse?
View related questions:
orgasm Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (29 December 2010):
 I disagree a little with AuntyEm,
Orgasm during intercourse is an achievable goal. Perhaps not full orgasm, (being a guy, I only know "there" and "not there"). There are some emotional benefits to orgasm during intercourse, especially simultaneous orgasm. I strongly recommend trying as many positions as you can. Personally position is frequently the difference between getting there and frustration for me and my Wife. I don't think you should give up your other methods, I am glad that he is being cooperative that way.
Now, before AuntyEm gets upset at me, She is very right that you need to relax and stop worrying to get there. What works for some may not work for you. And I highly recommend getting a book, not just for him. I recommend "Ride 'Em Cowgirl!", by Sadie Allison.
FA
A
reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2010): I would suggest you and your partner do a little online research. There are websites that can help both of you learn more about female anatomy and finding the G-spot. Penis size does not matter. Willingness to work at it does. There's also nothing wrong with after he orgasms if he fingers you to find that G-spot and get you there either. Whatever you 2 find comfortable.
...............................
A
female
reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (28 December 2010):
 Most women can't reach full orgasm during intercourse so there is nothing wrong with you. It also makes little difference what position you have sex in or the size of your partners penis. Orgasm during foreplay is much more achievable.
You are worrying too much...stop worrying and just develop your pleasure with sex by what works for you.
If your partner thinks its odd...then he really needs to read a book on the subject.
...............................
|
