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writes: I can remember a time when me and my brother french kissed he was 6 and i was 13, i feel really embarrassed when i remember this and am now 10 years older, i know this was wrong, and nothing has ever been mentioned between us and, not even a thought has occured since that day, has anybody else had any similar experience? Or know how to deal with it. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2006): Its all part of growing up,i think most people go through a "weird" stage during their childhood and teen years,its the hormones kicking in.when i was 11 i had a crush on my slightly older cousin louise and from the ages of 12 to 14 i prayed for the weekend to come so that i could help my brother in law wrestle and tickle my eldest sister jo when i stayed with them.don't stress about it,okay?
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (26 November 2006):
 You know, sometimes we just have those totally humiliating memories. It doesn't sound like you actually have feelings for your brother or any incestual inclinations, so I really wouldn't worry about it.
It'll probably make you grimace for the rest of your life, but I don't think there's anything wrong with you or anything. Kids do stupid things. Just don't even mention it, don't bring it up... just go on pretending it never, ever happened.
Time heals everything. Let this one pass.
xxIndia
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2006): Well, it's been a long time. I wouldn't worry about it. What's passed is past. The fact you feel that it's wrong will bug you to no end most likely, until you figure out that it happened once at a time when things were fresh and premature. Like all the bad stuff that happen to everyone at some point in their lives, you just gotta let them pass, dilute it with time and new experiences.
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