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writes:FOR FEMALES ONLY: I feel kind of embarrassed to ask this question, but I've googled around and haven't found too much information out there. Anyway, I hope this is not too much information or too disgusting. I have always had trouble achieving orgasm through the normal ways: masturbation (including the use of vibrators), oral sex, my partner's hand or regular penetration. At best my orgasms are very weak; sort of like my arousal/pleasure keeps rising and then just dies abruptly rather than climaxes. My problem is that I seem to only have real orgasms through breast stimulation alone. I can get off in under two minutes, multiple times, from my boyfriend playing/licking/sucking my breasts, but I can't seem to get off or even reach that level of arousal any other way. My boyfriend and I are in our early twenties, have been together several years and have very good communication so I don't think he minds all this now, but sometimes I wish I could get off in other ways for him. I'm afraid he might get tired or bored with having to be like, 'Okay... time to go do her bags of mammary fat again,' or something. He likes to try new things in bed, but in the end, there's really one thing that works for me... So my question is: do any of you women here have this type of problem? Do you have any suggestions? Is this even a problem? Thank you for your answers.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2011): I also find breast stimulation needed for orgasm, esp nipples. I think there's no issue with this form of stimulation provided it's done with the thought in mind of being part of your sexuality and not being a way of enticement to your partner esp if not married to the same. Enjoy!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2011): I have the SAME PROBLEM!!!
Found a solution though, and it leads to better pleasure too!
Stay on top, ride him and have him sucking/touching/rubbing your breasts at the same time, climax is even better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys. However, I didn't know that a woman could orgasm from breastfeeding, that sounds mortifying. :\
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2011): I'm a guy, but just passing along some basic information stream for you for a future issue you might run into.
This is not unheard of.
When/If you have children and when/if you breast feed, which you should by the way as it is good for the child and you in so many ways, you may also have orgasms then. Don't be afraid of it, but be aware, and you can deal with it if it ever happens. Most women who this happens with will be embarrassed, but it can be managed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2011): sorry, i know im a dude, but thats def not a problem. trust me, your boyfriend doesnt mind. hell, i wouldnt.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (20 February 2011):
 I say , if it ain't broke don't fix it . This does not even sound like a problem.
By all means, you are young and your body may still have in store for you all sort of surprises if you explore it well, so go ahead and experiment and try all the new things you can think of. But, with no anxiety and no pressure , not as if you absolutely SHOULD find another way to reach orgasm. Why ? Yours is simple, quick, never fails you and I bet that your bf is very glad that he can bring you to orgasm so easily- as opposed , say, to some exhausting oral sex marathon.
Plus , I don't think he sees your breast as "bags of mammary fat " but if he does...well, then apparently men have a real passion for bags of mammary fat.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2011): I like to be on all 4's and let them sway and bounce when he is doing doggie style. I find this stimulating. So you can't get off with direct clit stimulation? How about he suck on em and giggle your clit? Usally the clit is what does it but it is very normal for you to climax with breast stimulation.
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