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anonymous
writes:My girlfriend and I have been together two years and live together, she is a very chatty person and used to text me all the time about her day and just general chit chat. Lately she goes to her friends or family and it's like she has dropped off the face of the earth I can go hours without hearing from her until she just turns up back at home. I by no means expect her to check in with me and report every movement but it used to be just normal that she would say "on my way now" or "just arrived at ..... Talk to you in a bit" I have tried talking to her about it but she just turns everything around and will say I don't text her which I honestly do and the main reason I don't keep texting her is so I don't come across controlling so it's a bit of a no win discussion. I don't sit waiting for a text but compared with how it used to be its so out of character for her. Any ideas or advice please? She is 24 I'm 26 and she's never off her phone when we are together which makes the situation more frustrating for me
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (11 December 2015):
 You both live together at the moment, so am guessing you spend a lot of time together, I know that you are concerned as it is out of character, maybe she is just feeling like some time away from your relationship where she can just talk to friends and family.
Has she been acting different in any other part of your relationship? If this is the only thing that has changed, I wouldn't worry about it as she is probably just catching up with family and friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2015): I sometimes go to the stables to ride my horse, I leave my phone behind and when I come back at the end of the day ill probably have messages from people thinking 'I've dropped off the face of the earth' but I was actually just getting on with my life. I like the occasional text from my boyf 'good morning' good night etc but being bombared with texts is too much. Esp if I'm expected to keep replying to them all. If you see your gf regularly and have good chats what does is matter about the texts. If she was completely avoiding you I'd get the concern, but its just texts. Maybe you are past the point in your relationship now of needed to do the constant texting.which is something that usually goes on when its new\at the start
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