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writes: hiya. I'm 15 and I feel totally embarressed cos i went out with this boy for 2 weeks, a few weeks ago. I called him a 'sexy beast' on his answer machine on his mobile. Now I feel so embarressed about it cos we have broken up and, I dont know why, but I cant get over me calling him that. I wish i hadn't cos its so embarrassing. How do i get over this? I'm worried he has kept the answer phone message and shown all his mates or laughing at it all the time. I dont know what to do. We havent seen each other since the break up but ended on good terms. I just dont know what to do! Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Yos +, writes (13 June 2006):
It's a cool thing to have said! Any boy would be happy to be called that, and if any of his mates hear it then they'll mostly be thinking "Who is this girl? she sounds like fun!" I'm man and I'd be very happy to be called 'sexy beast' personally, and I know all my male friends would too.
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (13 June 2006):
Well chances are he wont say anything to anyone, we all say things to one another when we are going out that maybe normally we wouldnt say. Why worry about it, you said it and thats it, your obviously thought it at the time or you wouldnt have said it, so why would that make you the centre of a riddicule ? If he has shown his mates they are probably more jealous than making fun as it was him that was called a sexy beast by you not them!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2006): It's just a couple of words you said. Big whoop! Just leave it. I'm sure there will be 'worst' things in life you're going to have to deal with.
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reader, Angelicc +, writes (12 June 2006):
I have to say that i've left so pretty unusal messages to ex's and regretted them but i just laugh them off, you can't do anything about it.
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reader, auntie claire +, writes (12 June 2006):
dear reader don't do anything laugh it off with him if thats what his doing there could have been far more worse things you could have said so i really wouldn't worry about this and if you haven't seen him there's nothign to be embarrased about now is there. its just one of those silly things us girls do feel silly about for a few weeks then laugh about it the rest of our lives
don't fret be safe and any other probs feel free to e-mail me
all the best hunni xxx
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