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female
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anonymous
writes:i Broke up with my boyfriend after a relationship of 10 months 3 years ago as i said some wrongs words to him.when we were together we love each other so deeply.but most important he was in love with me more than i was.i still love him after a long time.I tried to get him when he done a break up by calling him,apologising,connecting with his friends and relatives etc.But it didnt worked.after i tried to move on as he was not responding to me.after a 1.5 years after our breakup he contacted me at midnight asking for my wel being.i thought that he has realised he cannt live without me.i taken help from one of his friend.he suggested me cal him to meet me.we met after that there i asked him that he love me.he said no i also apologised for my mistake but he said that he had another girl in his life but he was not having any girl in his after me,and why if he had he had called me at midnight to inquire of my wel being?at that meeting he didnt agreed for meeting.den again i move up with for 1 year. then my college was completed.den after a month of colege completion i called him.he called me back again with excitement i can feel at that time.after few days i again started convincing him for your relationship but he wasnt .he said i cannt continue same way.den again i stoped convincing him and stop calling him .after some days he called me inquired about how i am and said can we b friends.since i was so eager for your relationship i said yes and told him to meet me.before meeting me he inquired what i want to talk to him.when i met him this time i started with some other topics after some time i talked about your relationship he replied he dont want to talk about this matter anymore and if i want to talk about anything else i can talk.i convinced him so much then he said ok i need time to think about it.and after that meeting he didnt replied me didnt picked up my calls for almost 3 months.after that 3 months i was stil guilty of myself den this january i decided again to cal him and tried to get him .so i called him to meet me but again he inquired before meeting what i want to talk about i told him last time i need to say you something important.he replied that he busy for some days and he wil let me know about that den for few days i also become busy .he called after few days to meet.we made a plan and i met him i told him i stil love him and he should forget all wrong issues which happened between us .i tried convinced him so much but at last he said i cannot trust u d same way i did earlier in your relationship.after that meeting i made myself that i shud forget him.i contacted hm after that for 2 times but for work purpose only and dere after i never contacted him.but know from past 5-6 days i am again in same condition i wanted to talk to him but he is not now in same city he is some other city as he has started with his mba .i really love him so much tilnow. and he was the who had also love me so much.he was really serious about me .but by all the things which he had done after your breakup which i had told you,i dont know whether he love me or not rightnow.do he has got someone else over dere .i had got his no 2 days ago from his one of friend account where he had told his no to him.i want him back.please suggest me what shal i do in this situation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2010): Just move on....you didn't love or care about him as much as he did you and you also ended the relationship. There is no need to complicate things by trying to be friends or keep in touch with each other. The guy is probably still hurt and stringing you along without any intent on dating you on a serious level. He probably doesn't trust you but if that is the case, he needs to stop playing games and either commit to dating you or just leave you alone. What's up with all this going back and forth? Either he does, or either he doesn't. And the fact that he is seeing someone else, yet is trying to talk to you, speaks to his character...it tells me that he is capable of cheating..I wonder if his girlfriend is aware of his behavior?
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