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*rBrightside90
writes:Hello everyone,I was in a relationship with my ex-girlfriend for over one year when she decided to call it quits. This girl had lots of problems herself (eatingdisorders, etc.) It was a hard time for me dating her but I always felt obliged to stay with her and do my best to help her. Because thats what you do when you love eachother.The last 2-3 months of our relationbship, I had an nervous breakdown, lots of stress at school etc, and i was going to university in a few weeks. I always felt better when I could talk to her about it. One day she came over, told me that she couldnt handle it. She was too concerned about me, and she couldnt use that in her current state. She did tell me that she would always be here for me when i needed her.So we remained friends for a week or two, Then out of nowhere she didnt want to talk to me about any of my problems, she did not want to hear about anything. I felt so used and lied to, and decided to break all contact with her.But my problem now is, Im trying to forget her but at the same time i keep checking her facebook, etc. What should I do ?Thanks for reading,love
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2009): I think the situation you find yourself in is a very difficult one and what seems obvious maybe much more complex than you think. From what you've described, I think the girl in question has multiple problems of her own and she is trying to make sense of everything she is going through. She didn't want to talk about your problems, which may seem hypocritical because she previously always be there for you, but the reason could be because she was dealing with her own personal demons at the time. I think you should remember that she needs you as much as you need her. The reason you're still checking her facebook because you still care. Find out how she is feeling and tone down on talking about your problems a little. GOOOd LUCKKKK.
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