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writes:Me and my ex were the perfect couple for nearly a year. We broke up for a few reasons:- She was scared that I might be moving away- It was our first love and she wanted to know how good our relationship really was as we have no other experience- We got slightly bored of the routine of doing the same things at the same times- Come the end she sort of fell out of love with me for the above reasonsShe's told me that we'd probably still be together if I definitely wasn't moving, and now she's going out with someone else.What I want to know is, as I believe we're meant to be together, because we finished once, does this mean we'll never work again, as she believes?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (8 January 2008):
 You can try to woo and win her back.You need to convince her that you won't be moving to calm her fears.If her love for you is deep enough , she will not feel that way.It is best not to talk about any potential moving as she is quite sensitive on this issue at the moment.
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reader, jase@999 +, writes (7 January 2008):
jase@999 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe did try. It was eating at us for months and we were both unhappy, it was like our lives were counting down. We both thought we'd have to end it. But I still don't know if I have to move and she still says she doesn't want me to. If I'm not moving, do you think we could work again?
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (7 January 2008):
Love is a two way channel. Apparently , she does not believe in long distant relationship. She will need more convincing on your part.
Will you be able to meet her needs when you are far from her?
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reader, Sparkly_Stars +, writes (7 January 2008):
 I know this is a really hard time for you right now.. but the best advice I can give you, is if it doesn't come back to you, it was never yours to begin with. You don't want to have to be running around after someone, especially someone who has moved on to be with someone else! YOu don't fall out of love with someone cos they might be moving house! You are worth so much more than that, and you deserve someone who is going to stick by you and not jump onto someone else as soon as the going gets tough!!
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