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writes:I have been seeing a women for the last 1-1/5 years. She and her ex-husband have mutual friends that get together frequently. She is seeing her ex more and more frequently. They go to parties and see each other etc. I really believe that she would rather see him than me. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2010): You said they go to parties and see each other. Does that mean they happen to end up at the same parties because they have mutual friends? Or are they actually going to parties together?
Just because they have mutual friends and are invited to the same events doesn't mean they're planning to hang out.
If they're going together, though, you should talk to her about what's going on. Tell her how uncomfortable it makes you feel, but don't whine or make yourself sound like you're insecure or jealous. Just tell her you don't understand why you and she don't go out more, and that you'd like to. Tell her that her going out with her ex seems awkward to you, since they divorced for a reason. If she respects your feelings, she'll stop or modify her plans to include more of you and less of him. Best of luck!
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reader, Oregongrl1 +, writes (18 July 2010):
what should you do? the only thing you can really do is to confront her about it and hopefully she will give you an honest answer! and if she wants to be w/ her ex- then so be it. but don't waste anymore of your time life is to precious and to short!
Best Wishes!
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